My girlfriend and I both tried this method and we had a lot of fun doing it. Of course we waited until we had the house to ourselves. I wouldn’t have wanted any of my family members to walk in on us darting around the kitchen topless and dunking our boobs in bowls of warm water!

I found out that my breasts weigh about 1.5 pounds each, with the left one weighing slightly more than the one of the right. I didn’t know how to convert this but when we went to a lingerie store the lady who helped us said knowing the exact weight of my breasts is very helpful. Sure enough the bras she picked for me were perfect!

Also I ended up buying bras from three different brands, and all three were a slightly different size.

The store lady said it is a good idea to weigh your breasts each time you shop for a bra, because your boobs change over time as you lose of gain weight.

Also it is best not to shop for a bra while you are on your period as your boobs grow slightly bigger during this time.

Meanwhile the store had closed so the second time I went to another store. There I was helped by a girl my age who made a rude remark when she saw my bare breasts. “Those t*ts look good enough to kiss,” she said. I got dressed and left rightaway.

The third time the bra-fitting specialist certainly knew her job. I came away with two fantastically comfortable bras. However the women was overly familiar and treated me like I didn’t know how to put on a bra. She was constantly touching my breasts, kind of like Trinny and Suzanne used to do in What Not To Wear.

At one point she even hurt me when she stuck her hand down the bra I was trying on ‘to see if the nipple was positioned properly.’ Well, it was, but she squeezed my other nipple hard enough for me to yelp.

Nowadays I am my own bra fitter. I use the kind of guidelines you have on this website, take my own sweet time to try many different bras, and buy the ones that are most comfortable. After I have worn a new bra a few times and still think it is comfy I go back to the same store and get myself 2, 3 or 4 more, preferably in different sizes.

As we were sitting around my friend told him about the things she had bought. At one point she stood up and raised her skirt, showing off a very nice set of sexy panties. That was fun, but I wasn’t prepared for what happened next. She said, I was wearing my newly bought panties as well, and then said to me, “Come on, show him…”

It was weird but I stood up as well and showed off my new panties. My friend and I laughed and we ended up showing him our other purchases as well. It was funny and quite, well, sexy to see him examining my new bras and panties.

Flashing is fun and using some lingerie as outerwear can be sexy. But exhibitionism is bit different. Or perhaps everyone experiences it a bit different. I think for me it goes a lot further. For instance my boyfriend loves it when I ‘obey’ him and give our waiter in a restaurant an eyeful, and I know exactly what Heather means when she talks about the feeling you get when someone makes you do something like that. I love it!

I much prefer the subtle variety, pretending I am unware that something is showing. That’s because I do it for me rather than for someone else. I very much love that strong mixture of feelings and emotions I get when I know someone can see up my skirt or down my blouse — that of being embarassed and excited at the same time. It’s much the same way I feel when someone new undresses me — or ‘makes me undress’ — for the first time.

That, to me, is the height of sensuality.

I think the celebrities merely want attention, and nowadays just about the only way they can get it is by showing off in a rather crash manner. That’s not for me.

By the way, I own an extensive collection of high quality lingerie. I love wearing expensive, pretty but classy lingerie and I often lounge in lingerie when at home.