As we were sitting around my friend told him about the things she had bought. At one point she stood up and raised her skirt, showing off a very nice set of sexy panties. That was fun, but I wasn’t prepared for what happened next. She said, I was wearing my newly bought panties as well, and then said to me, “Come on, show him…”

It was weird but I stood up as well and showed off my new panties. My friend and I laughed and we ended up showing him our other purchases as well. It was funny and quite, well, sexy to see him examining my new bras and panties.

Flashing is fun and using some lingerie as outerwear can be sexy. But exhibitionism is bit different. Or perhaps everyone experiences it a bit different. I think for me it goes a lot further. For instance my boyfriend loves it when I ‘obey’ him and give our waiter in a restaurant an eyeful, and I know exactly what Heather means when she talks about the feeling you get when someone makes you do something like that. I love it!

I much prefer the subtle variety, pretending I am unware that something is showing. That’s because I do it for me rather than for someone else. I very much love that strong mixture of feelings and emotions I get when I know someone can see up my skirt or down my blouse — that of being embarassed and excited at the same time. It’s much the same way I feel when someone new undresses me — or ‘makes me undress’ — for the first time.

That, to me, is the height of sensuality.

I think the celebrities merely want attention, and nowadays just about the only way they can get it is by showing off in a rather crash manner. That’s not for me.

By the way, I own an extensive collection of high quality lingerie. I love wearing expensive, pretty but classy lingerie and I often lounge in lingerie when at home.